Courtesies

When attending a military reception, like weddings, there is usually a receiving line to assure that guests have an opportunity to exchange greetings with the honored guests and hosts. A military receiving line consists of an aide, the hosts, and guests of honor. The function of the aide is to take your name and introduce you to the host. (Do not shake hands with the aide.) Never carry a cigarette or a drink when going through a line and if late, make a point to speak to the hosts and guests of honor.

RSVP

Repondez s’il vous plait is a French term meaning "please reply". It is proper courtesy to reply to an invitation within 48 hours of receiving it as to whether you will be able to attend. "Regrets" means to reply only if you will not be able to attend.

A thank-you note or phone call to a hostess is always appropriate after attending any invited event. It is also a nice expression to someone who has done something for you that warrants appreciation.